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Hold the Boundary

The Psychology of Setting Limits Without Guilt, Over-Explaining or Backtracking

Learn how to set a boundary and actually hold it — even when someone is upset, you're feeling guilty, or every part of you wants to explain, fix it or take it back.

Inside you'll learn how to identify what your boundary actually is, communicate it clearly, stop confusing guilt with wrongdoing, handle the discomfort that comes after, and follow through when your boundary is challenged.

What's included

  • The 4-step Boundary Framework
  • A guided Boundary Check

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